Welcome to The Right Alongside You Journal — a cosy corner for midlife women ready to slow down, breathe, and rediscover themselves through the messy, magical, and meaningful shifts of life.
Here, I share stories from my own journey and from other women navigating perimenopause, motherhood, and creative rediscovery. I also explore how technology can deepen, not replace, our human connection helping you to use Ai as your self coaching assistant — helping reflection, reconnection, and find meaning in the small moments.
Think of it as a chat over tea with a friend who gets it — no judgement, no pressure, just real talk, a few laughs, and a reminder that you’re not alone.
So, grab a cuppa, settle in, and let’s find our flow again, one small shift at a time.
My 10-Minute Ritual for Clearing Mental Clutter
When your brain feels full and you can’t think straight, you don’t need an hour-long reset. This gentle 10-minute ritual helps you clear mental clutter, find calm, and feel like yourself again
Creating Space When Your Brain Feels Full
When your brain feels full and every decision feels impossible, it’s not failure, it’s a signal. Learn how to create space, ease the mental load, and breathe again.
Why Midlife Women Carry the Invisible Mental Load
So many midlife women carry an invisible mental load that no one sees. It’s not that you’re broken, it’s that you’ve been carrying too much for too long. Here’s how to start releasing the weight and finding your way back to calm
The Quiet Kind of Overwhelm No One Talks About
There’s a kind of overwhelm that doesn’t look dramatic from the outside — it’s quiet. It creeps in between the tasks, the responsibilities, and the expectations. This is the story of how we lose ourselves in midlife, and how we can gently find our way back.
End of Year Reflection | Finding Hope and Strength in Midlife
This heartfelt reflection shares the reality of midlife anxiety, menopause, and rediscovering yourself one small step at a time. You’re not broken, you’re becoming
The Power of Saying No in Midlife
Midlife brings a quiet clarity that helps us see what truly matters. Yet, saying no can still feel uncomfortable. This post explores how learning to say no becomes an act of self-respect and a path to peace
How to Slow Down When Life Speeds Up
Midlife can feel like a blur of responsibilities and rushing from one thing to the next. But slowing down isn’t about doing less, it’s about being more present with what matters most. In this post, I share how I learned to create micro-moments of calm, even in the middle of chaos, and how you can too
Finding Calm Before the Festive Chaos
The festive season can feel like a whirlwind, especially for midlife women juggling it all. This heartfelt piece explores how to create calm, embrace presence, and rediscover joy during the holidays.
Reconnecting with yourself when midlife leaves you running on empty.
Routines That Actually Work: Gentle Habits for Midlife Women
Your Story Matters: How Midlife Storytelling Can Reconnect You With Yourself
Use your life story as a guide to self-discovery. Simple journaling and reflection practices help midlife women feel aligned and grounded
Rediscovering Yourself in Midlife: Gentle Self-Discovery Tools
Mindful habits to reconnect with yourself in your midlife journey
What It’s Really Like to Live with Perimenopause — My Story (Ish)
Coping with life during perimenopause, midlife changes, mood, mental health and wellness over 40.
Feeling lost in midlife? - You’re not alone.
Feeling lost in midlife? You’re not alone. Discover honest stories, gentle self-care, and connection inside The right alongside you blog.